Tuesday, February 15, 2011

GOA!!

Duration: 26th Jan to 29th Jan 2011.

Unfinished business always occupies a certain space in the mind and unsettles new business that comes ones way .
Have you ever been to Goa? is was one unfinished business for me till very recently. It is a question that would make me scratch my chin for a while, (reaction varies).. For a guy with average sensibilities like i , not having been to Goa for 24 long years (since birth)was INCOMPLETENESS. I have always loved traveling to new places and exotic locations. With a new sense of financial independence things are falling in place bit by bit.

My former MBA batch mates thought upon this idea and the mere mention of Goa set us chancing ourselves for what we all would remember as THE TRIP after the completion of it.

The actions unfurled with booking of tickets and continuous conference calls discussing each ones fantasies.

Cutting the elaborate travel plans i would mention ON-Arrival and after.

A drive from Panjim to Calangute set the tone. As we neared the mouth of Calangute the riddle named GOA was now fathomable. As Typical & cliche as it can get we all mummer ed under our breath and in jest called out KYA CROWD hai bey!!

I had never seen such beautiful women (in such large numbers) . The rest of the trip we were in awe of the women.We all nodded in unison when i cried out "Goa has to be a yearly pilgrimage from now"!

We had a 2 bedroom flat to ourselves with a swimming pool..that was the best part.

Needless to say that we were all on a BEER binge, visited some famous places like Anjuna Fort, baga beach, curlies, etc played water sports, experienced Panjim cruiser ride, shopped, not to miss out witnessed the unraveling of Femina Calender launch, ate awesome food!!

Against the silhouette of sun kissed beaches, sunsets & enigmatic women Goa was a testimony to the unflattering and unwavering friendship that we shared and continue to do so..perhaps that made it extra special!

As i write this a sudden wave of nostalgia fills my heart & urges me to RELIVE the trip :)

Friday, October 8, 2010

A trip to COORG:)

A working life doesn’t have too many luxuries to offer. A single day off from work holds invaluable significance. I sound despondent but that has been the case so far, at least with me. Much can be attributed to the environment I work in.

September 10th &11th were 2 such days that evoked a sense of jubilation in me and my friends who are as much troubled and forlorn as I. Let me cut the melodrama short and get to business.

September 12th being a Sunday, I had 3 good days to unwind & de stress. I tagged 2 other friends of mine to visit COORG.1 was as excited as I and was raring to go, the other was confused and was in an unstable frame of mind, I can bet things haven’t moved much in the latter’s case!

So 3 of us packed our bags and made a dash from our respective destinations on Thursday i.e. 9th sep 2010 after office hours. I had other plans but eventually had to de tour because of my unstable friend. So from Bangalore both of us went to Mangalore to meet my 3rd friend.

The travel in detail:

1.My friend & I have dinner at his place and set off on our journey at 9.15 pm in a bus to the main bus stand. The bus is scheduled to leave at 10.30 pm. We have enough time to spare.

2.The bus is stuck in traffic for a good 20 minutes. We are about 3 kms away from the bus stand with 10 minutes to spare.

3.We panic and jump out of the bus and make our way through the traffic.

4.We call the bus driver (of the bus that was to leave for Mangalore) and plead with him to wait.

5.It seems filmy but we run a good 3 kms or more and reach the bus.

6.We are panting and puffing and soaked in sweat.

7.We fling our bags on the seats and make ourselves comfortable.

8.The bus runs 1 hour late as there were many who got delayed because of the jam.

9.We somehow loose our check on time and slip into slumber.

10.Just over 1 hour into the journey our blessed bus hits a swift and an imbroglio crops us.

11.The matter is settled and our bus sets on its journey at 1 am.

12.With a sense of despair that the bus would reach not earlier than 10 in the morning we again catch some sleep.

13.In the morning pensive & curious co passengers smile at each other.

14.We make some friends and talk to them in fits & starts.

15.We try & gather information about COORG and the time it would take us to reach Mangalore.

16.My friend at Mangalore gets impatient and calls me fervently.

17.After getting so many versions I decide to check with the conductor as to what time we would reach Mangalore.

18.The super responsive conductor after repeated attempts of mine to extract information from him looks at me and writes something in the air and smiles eye to eye.

19.I throw my hands up in the air in despair & disgust.

20.PASSIVE VOICE: We had embarked on a journey that lasted for 12 good hours. We could feel the heat we had generated throughout by sitting on the seats. Had it been a little longer we would have hatched eggs!!

21.Finally we reach Mangalore. Both of us were in precarious position. Since we are running late and have to board the next connecting bus from Mangalore to COORG we can’t go to my friend’s place to freshen up.

22.Within minutes we see a mall named BHARAT MALL.( Malls till then had never appealed to me). All hell was breaking loose. We go inside the mall and then………

23.My otherwise unkind and insensitive friend at Mangalore gets us bread & omelets for us. It surprises me but then I chuck the thought and hog.

24.After another 8 hours of traveling 3 of us reach Mathikere and take a taxi to Kutta. ( Mathikere & Kutta are the northern & southern part of COORG.Kutta is the place where all the action is).

25.Finally about 7.30 pm we reach the guest house and order both our pending lunch & scheduled dinner. We gobble up everything much to the amusement of the care takers.

26.The room is good and spacious but the problem is the darkness with some dim lights en route the bathroom.

27.Somehow we muster strength as it scary and we sense something eerie .We take turns to freshen up. We move like ants 1 after the other and take guard outside the bathroom door till 1 finishes. Phew!!

28.We then fall asleep cuddling each other out of fear.

29.Next morning i.e.11th Sep 2010 we do white river rafting & take bath at Irpu falls.

The memories are still fresh and it urges me to go for another such trip!! God willing I shall be able to narrate more harrowing experiences 

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

My vacation:tumultuous & gleeful

Away from the hustle bustle of the city and the maddening crowds, life offers a comforting & a blissful space. I all this time had not even fathomed this. I didn’t have the faintest idea how it is to be on a vacation with your family especially after one has entered the corporate arena & has to perform the drill everyday.

To my delight a decision to visit the backwaters of Kerela was made. I wanted to go to Bhubaneshwar first (BBSR –for convenience will be seen throughout the passage) –my hometown ..as it had been almost close to a year since I had last visited.

After having spent a couple of days at home & devouring home made food we boarded the Koromondal express on the 19th of May to Chennai. On the fateful day of 20th may ‘Laila’ struck and everything went awry. The blessed train was running late by almost 12 hours. The very next morning the staff dropped the bombshell by letting us all know that the train would be stranded & reaching Chennai would be a tad uncertain. With the air conditioning shut & dwindling food supplies, we panicked, understandably (had it not been for the luggage we could have taken a flight from BBSR and probably would have been stranded at Chennai airport for hours).It had to be jinxed any which ways!!

Finally the train de toured and we had to hop into another train bound to Ernakulam squeezing ourselves in the sleeper class with 4 big bags. The cacophony around was an addition to the cup of woes now filled to the brim!! Luckily the TT gave us berths in the A/c compartment not before we had spent 14 hours amidst the commotion! By gods grace we slept peacefully & reached TRICHUR the next morning (22nd May). I emanated an odour no better than the pantry wallas & porters. We had spent close to 70 hours (both the trains put together)!!My body was so acclimatized to the train environment that i could not sleep in stillness..

Finally we reached my father’s friend’s place at Trichur and freshened ourselves. The same afternoon we headed towards Munnar.

In all we visited 4 places Munnar , Thekkady, Kumaragom (supposedly spelt correctly)& Ernakulam. The traditional Martial Arts & Kathakali were a treat for the eyes. I also had the famous Kerela Massage. The grandest of them was the House Boat at Kumaragom. It was splendid. An experience of a lifetime!! The regality of the boat was mesmerizing more so because of the backwaters that stood as a silhouette.Not to miss out we had plenty of fish based delicacies.slurp slurp!! the intoxicating aroma is still around me:)

We took a flight back to Bangalore from Cochin on the 27th of May. On the 28th I had to come to terms with reality. I was back in office (I remembered an instance from Akbar- Birbal stories when once Akbar had asked Birbal to write something that would bring grief & at the same time bring happiness to people who read it. Birbal wrote: YEH WAQT GUZAR JAYEGA). I had mixed feelings!!

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Train Journeys !!

I have a queer notion of train journeys..There is something special about train journeys in India..i am sure each of us at 1 point of time must have got off a train with a smile..remembering the incidents & instances that made the journey memorable.

I have always tried to observe people around me specially in trains during my journeys..they have always been event full so far.

I have only tried to gather my numerous experiences..and they are as follows

" Yeh saman kiska hai/Yeh apka seat hai "?? - the most commonly used conversation openers.

The challenge is to rest your a**** on the lower seat when you have an upper berth without having to confront scowling faces.Even before you occupy space on the seats, to shovel your luggage beneath the seats draws lot of flak..1 would not find ample space to park 1's luggage ( that is 8 out of 10 times).i have seen as few as 2 people carrying a truckload of luggage and then shamelessly feeling good about it.

It is all the more interesting when you have families travelling with young, pretty. petite & svelte girls along with you. Just observe how the father,brother & mother keep an eye on you as if you are a fugitive who would run away if they blinked or took their eyes off you.

Journeys in A.C compartments are less ill fated but have their own share of woes especially when a man or woman (understandably middle aged or older)suffer from indigestion.The nightmarish part is to use the toilets in the mornings. The benefits are you do not have many vendors screaming on top of their voices and shaking you off your slumber trying to sell chess boards to tea.

The inferior cousin (Sleeper class)is all about chaos, commotion and unrest. What i have invariably noticed is that the passage is covered with remnants of pea nuts & crushed paper balls.

Here is where you find the most intricate mannerisms of people..I have seen people digging their noses endlessly as if they had struck upon gold & them making small mucus balls and then releasing them in the air with utmost self confidence.

what tires the ears is the sound of scratching!! when 1 out of curiosity opens the eye finds people trying to scratch at places which are meant to be private with great ease and then give out a sigh of relief!! Just imagine when they shake hands with you or pass a cup of tea/coffee from the vendor to you.

The next feat is to resist the snoring around you.Sometimes it is so loud that 1 is unable to hear the sound of the moving train!! i must say like in every other field women are catching up really fast in this 1 as well.

Today Ipod's & MP3 players or cell phones with music players are very essential and should never be forgotten to be carried.

The landscapes , the excitement to realize that your destination has arrived, the bargaining hassles with the porters are the other factors that just make a journey more complete!!

Thursday, April 22, 2010

SIDDHARTH-up ,close & personal!!

I started my blog with IPL,dance India dance & few more..but i have failed to introduce myself to my blog readers & followers..

Like many i am an ambitious guy..always thinking of new possibilities & avenues to spruce up my career...MBA & banking was not a matter of choice in the sense(i opted for the conventional route because MBA fetched jobs)!!even today i still have a strong urge to quit my job and follow my dreams..i always had this ambition of becoming a cartoonist ever since good sense had prevailed in me..which was when i was about 3-4 years..in my formative years i had picked up a pencil and drawn a front side view of a galloping horse much to the surprise of my parents & relatives..for a little boy who had not even learnt cursive writing, the strokes were more than ordinary!!

As time flew by i horned my skills, won many prizes, did my parents proud..the only times they were upset with me was when my academic reports were pressed into their hands with utter disgust by my teachers!! and to be honest that happened almost every year.

People within my family & outside thought i was a dud..i used to fare badly only in maths..but the truth is i never wanted to study.and when 1 sits idle in math class without paying attention..the basics just tend to fade and once that happens it is difficult to pull back things.

But things changed when i moved up the ladder to standard 10.I somehow managed to pull back things..i got a 76 in maths ( i thank my tutor for this..he was amazing).it was a complete makeover for a guy who used to score miserably..

*i remember before every math test my parents would spend sleepless nights & i would constantly ask my grandfather whether i would pass or not.


This restored some confidence in my parents & to my dismay i was asked to take up maths along with commerce..this time it was my tutor again..a different 1 who was a struggler and was trying to earn his livelihood.. Tutions were a source of income for him..he was far more dedicated than i was.It seemed as if he had to appear for exams.

I again surprised every 1 around for having solved some intriguing calculus sums in my 12th board..

* i remember my tutor telling me that he had never expected me to solve those problems and he could now be sure of his teaching abilities..i was his 1st student :)


As most Indians i loved outdoor sports specially cricket...i badly wanted to play cricket..& when time came i played it badly :)

But i have always worked hard to develop my skills in this game..till date i play cricket whenever i get a chance & then get back working on my weaknesses..Some may think i am being pompous..but the fact is i have improved in this game by leaps & bounds..

As a child i always loved dancing ...i only danced on occasions like Pujas at my apartment's community center..i would rehearse in front of the mirror endlessly..i still love dancing but now getting into the act with a hefty built that i have is going to cause serious problems..

I am a big foodie..my mother tells even when i was a toddler i used to finish my food and then crawl around and look at others plates..with empathy and love,i used to be fed with adult food

Thats about me as brief yet narrative as possible..someday i shall fulfill my dreams and would reminisce this post.

Friday, April 9, 2010

life in a metro!!

lt has almost been close to a year since i came to Bangalore!! On the 16th of June 2009 I stepped out of the Volvo bus and i was welcomed with a gust of cold air that slapped me across my face.I was thrilled and excited.Coming from Eastern India (Bhubaneshwar) and then boarding the bus from Chennai,Bangalore's weather was some kind of a blessing.

As time flew ,what seemed like a refreshing change turned stale.The roads,traffic,inaccessibility to good road side food started taking a toll on me..how much i miss kolkata!!

Not many people know that everyday despite trying hard to converse with whatever kannada i have gathered, i still have to gulp down some solvent which is a mixture of tea & coffee at my office..every time i burp..i get to feel the taste of this magic solvent coupled with chutney & sambhar ( i eat chapatis & sabzi that are left over from the previous night's dinner but normally i get up late so i take my breakfast at my office) ...talking about burping only seems pretty decent on a public forum ..doesnt it??

I had to thrive & live on meals for the 1st 8 months..ofcourse dinner was cooked at my place so that was a big relief:)a meal typically has chapthi, rice,rice & rice with 2 bowls of curry.

But i have to admit that people who originally belong to Karnataka are very helpful,kind and have a pleasant disposition!

The summer this time has been unkind & unforgiving.I am still waiting for the rains..I am told it rains when it becomes so hot here..

Bangalore has its own charm but lot of sheen is gone now..the pubs & discos close down at 11..ofcourse there are places where RAAT BAKI BAAT BAKI happens but such places are not affordable if my means are anything to go by.The best I can do is watch a night show and then hit the sack!

Life is hectic may be because i have to lead life with a routine. What is more dreadful to think is that i ll have to work in big cities to tap better & more opportunities..to more than compensate for the expenses i have borne towards my education..i will have to work ..god knows for how many more years..

Life in a metro is difficult but is equally rewarding..i am ready to take anything that comes my way on my chin and propel towards prosperity.I am not complaining and cribbing..it is just that at times my affinity towards comfort and luxury gets the better off me..

Sunday, April 4, 2010

My 1st job: The story so far!!

REWIND:Well this has to be the most intimate & important part of my life....my 1st job!!Like many other aspiring MBA's i 2 had my own share of triumphs & tribulations..Last summer i was gearing up for my on campus placements along with my worthy batch mates & friends..excitement & drama on campuses throughout India was common.nail biting finishes much like the IPL!!

Though i had lost faith in the placement system..destiny had something else..not many people know that i was not shortlisted for BANK OF BARODA the first time but i am told somebody spilled the beans (as in lack of transparency in the processes of shortlisting candidates)and again a new list was prepared containing my name in there..that was a treat for my eyes!!whoever that person was..i think for me he was a messenger of god:)

I do not remember the date but i was skeptical,apprehensive and had developed jelly knees on the D day..i was not very sure about my selection and was making frantic attempts to secure a job through personal contacts..Bhagwan ke Ghar me der hai Andher Nahi.i got a much awaited call from my college confirming my selection.my joy knew no bounds!!

With the passage of time i received intimation about my joining dates..the letter read Chennai!!my hopes of going to Kolkata and re-uniting with my friends were in tatters!!i had to make a dash as i only had a week to report from the day i got the letter..I reported on the 14th of June 09 at chennai and gave out a sigh of relief when i saw people of my age anxiously waiting and arranging their respective doubts in their minds..to shoot at the HR!!I did not have much to bother about as my father a retired banker himself had already briefed me about the challenges..with my half baked knowledge about PSU's i was the agony aunt in few minutes..people were hurriedly coming to me to raise their doubts and queries!!i d scored on day zero!!

Towards the fag end of the reporting session i was informed that i had to report to Bangalore..that was some respite!I went to the respective office to report for my job..how proud i must have been !As i entered the office i created quite a commotion .i saw GREY HEADS raising their heads slowly from their cubicles ..reminded me of Jurassic Park for a moment!!i must say there were some who had dyed their hair also.

Their eyes lit up..arey naya bakra aa gaya!! somebody asked me on the 1st day .kab chodoge yeh naukri??..i said to myself what motivation man!

I was posted at RLF along with another poor soul-SAMEER!My office was nothing short of an Ekta Kapoor serial..back biting ,backlashes etc.We were sandwiched between the clash of egos..I honestly confess that amidst the chaos & mundane schedule i came across some lighter moments..The typical dialogues and one liners from my senile colleagues were catchy..and what pained me was to laugh at their jokes forcibly..it was a tough call..My flair and fondness for crude jokes found a new impetus and direction!!I made some good friends of my age in my organization.It was like finding an oasis in a desert.

To be addressed & introduced as a colleague to my seniors was worrisome at times..My stint at RLF was memorable..everyday i had to do a couple of inspections & contact leads for retail loans!That experience will surely count someday..

Now i am comfortably working at SME division .getting to learn a lot about balance sheet analysis..it has just been a month so i do not have much to share..but i have good company to work with..


NOTE: My experience at RLF has not been discussed at length due to security reasons:)